Let’s talk napkins. Yes—napkins. Because in the world of tea parties, the smallest detail can say the most about your vibe. Now before someone clutches their pearls, let me just say this: whether you're hosting a full-blown Downton Abbey moment or a cute DIY garden tea on your patio, napkin choice matters—but not the way you think.

There’s a certain kind of magic when a beautifully styled three-tiered tray is placed at the center of a tea table. It’s not just about the treats (although, yes please)—it’s about tradition, presentation, and that moment when everyone leans in with wide eyes and hungry hearts.

If you’ve ever stared at a hat rack before a tea party or Derby event and thought, “Wait—do I go big brim or cute clip?”—girl, you are not alone. Welcome to the ultimate style showdown: Fascinator vs. Derby Hat. They’re both fabulous. They both turn heads. But they are not the same. Let’s sip some tea and break it all down, so you can pick your perfect topper with confidence (and just the right amount of drama).

Darling, not all tea parties are steeped the same—and thank goodness for that. Whether you're planning your next fabulous affair or just daydreaming in lace and lemon curd, let’s spill the tea on the two most iconic styles of tea parties: The Garden Goddess Vibe vs. The Vintage Vixen Mood. Each has its own charm, flavor, and flair. The question is—what kind of tea-sipping diva are you?

Sure, you could toss some tea bags on the table and call it a day—but we both know you’re here for something more. You're here for clink-worthy china, finger sandwiches that slay, and a vibe so lovely your guests will be raving long after the last sip. Whether you're celebrating a birthday, bridal moment, or just feel like being bougie on a Tuesday, here's how to host a private tea party that serves elegance with a side of sparkle.

Life’s a lot right now, isn’t it? Between juggling jobs, kids, dreams, side hustles, and maybe remembering to eat lunch—we are doing the absolute most. And sometimes, girl, it feels like the world is asking us to be superheroes with a smile glued on. That’s why creating little pockets of joy is no longer a luxury—it’s survival. Enter: the tea party.

A Bridgerton Affair: High Tea, Southern Charm is soon to unfold at the stately Chateau 1870, a historic gem nestled in the heart of Dacula, Georgia, where every corner whispers of romance and every room begs for a curtsy.